"When to Keep Your Mouth Shut"

Print out these "tongue filters" and stick them near your phone, your computer or your desk, and then commit them to memory:

  1. Will my words improve the situation?
  2. Do I know all the facts?
  3. Was I asked for my opinion?
  4. Is it my place to speak?
  5. Is the other person ready to hear what I have to say?


  1. Will my words improve the situation?
  2. Do I know all the facts?
  3. Was I asked for my opinion?
  4. Is it my place to speak?
  5. Is the other person ready to hear what I have to say?


  1. Will my words improve the situation?
  2. Do I know all the facts?
  3. Was I asked for my opinion?
  4. Is it my place to speak?
  5. Is the other person ready to hear what I have to say?