FINDING FAITH
By Brian D. McLaren
a Book Review byJohn Ed Robertson,February 19, 1999
It is not often that I am as enthusiastic about a book as I am about this one. Brian McLaren has, in my opinion, written a sequel to Mere Christianity for post-modern people. He writes with genuine love and respect for the unbeliever, and in a conversational style, using the first and second persons: "I", "you" and "we". He states his objective as follows:
"Instead of trying to tell you 'the answers' via dogmatic pronouncements (as many well-meaning people have already tried to do for you, no doubt), I would like to help you find the answers you need yourself. Instead of trying to tell you what to believe or focusing on why you should believe, my goal is to help you discover how to believe - how to search for and find a faith that is real, honest, good, enriching and yours." (p. 19)
The book follows a clear, logical outline. In fact, the heart of the book is an examination of the various faith options according to the following logical outline.
IS THERE A GOD? - THREE POSSIBILITIES
I No (Atheism)
A 9 Reasons for Accepting Atheism
B 6 Reasons for Bypassing Atheism
II I Don't Know (Agnosticism)
A Closed Agnosticism (It is impossible for anyone to know)
B "Ignosticism" (I don't know and I don't care to know)
C Open Agnosticism (I don't know, but I am open to find out)
III Yes (Theism)
A Pantheism (God is everything)
B Polytheism (There are many gods)
C Dualism (There are two gods: one good and one evil)
D Monotheism (There is one God)
At the same time, the objectives and the questions that each chapter addresses are clearly spelled out at the beginning of the chapter, and the reader is invited to skip around and read the chapters that have the most relevance for him or her personally. Perhaps the best way to explain this is to give the outline of the book.
Introduction: The Predicament of an Intelligent Person Seeking Faith
Part I Faith, Knowledge and Doubt
Part II God, for Logical Thinkers
Part III Spiritual Experience
Part IV Help for the Spiritual Search
Part V Milestones in My Spiritual Journey
What I found most refreshing about this book was the author's ability to put himself in the shoes of the unbeliever or seeker, and not polarize the issues that are often hang-ups for post-modern people. For example, he tackles the idea "It doesn't matter what you believe, just so you're sincere" with respect rather than ridicule. He does this by suggesting that what people really mean when they say that is that the quality of one's faith is as important as the content of one's faith. He recognizes that the unbeliever is much more interested in the effect of one's faith (does it make one a better person?) than in the accuracy of the propositions that one believes. If my faith puts a chip on my shoulder, this is not going to win many adherents, despite my brilliant intellectual arguments in defense of it.
He notes, for example, that perhaps the worst enemy of monotheism is not pantheism or atheism or some other ism. It is bad monotheism. Deism, for example, was a reaction to the extreme religious intolerance of the Middle Ages (with things like the Inquisition) and the period of religious wars and persecutions after the Reformation. In the chapter on "Jesus Anonymous", he lists 10 things about modern-day Christianity that turn people off and concludes: "But twenty centuries of Christianity have led many people (including Frederch Nietzsche) to say, 'It would be a whole lot easier to believe in Christ if it weren't for the Christians'". (pp. 283-284)
To counter bad monotheism, he gives three characteristics of good monotheism:
He concludes:
"All we're saying in our pursuit of the monotheist path is that there is one God behind the universe, and this God must be amazing to have created all that exists - amazing and relational - and thus worth knowing or experiencing." (p. 140)
Another example would be the way he addresses the question of whether truth is relative or absolute. He gently points out that "when we say that everything is relative and no one can know anything with certainty, (we) conveniently ignore the fact that we seem to believe that we know with complete certainty that everything is relative." (p. 56) This is not a new observation, of course, but I have seldom heard it made with such respect for the relativists we are seeking to win.
Likewise, he tactfully makes his case that everyone lives by faith, in that we all choose our basic presuppositions as a matter of a faith choice and not by unavoidable logic. He includes several quotes from Einstein to demonstrate that "there is no knowing without believing and believing is the way to knowing." (pp. 58-59 quoting from The Gospel in a Pluralist Society, by Leslie Newbigin.
He writes in a respectful, conversational style as if he were actually in dialogue with an atheist or an agnostic or a struggling believer. In fact, he even asked several of his atheist and agnostic friends to review his manuscript. He does not try to back his interlocutor (i.e. the reader) into a corner, but gently leads him or her through the implications of each choice one can make in thinking about God. For example, he devotes a chapter to the proposition that there is no God (atheism), listing 9 reasons for atheism and six reasons for continuing the search for God (i.e. 6 reasons for questioning atheism). He gently points out that atheism is a faith commitment just as much as theism, but he does it in a way that respects, rather than ridicules, the atheistic reader.
But this book is not just for atheists, agnostics and other unbelieving seekers. He devotes considerable space to discussing the problems of doubt for the believer. Chapter 3 ("How Does Faith Grow?") contains one of the best outlines of spiritual growth that I have ever seen. He breaks the development of faith down into four stages: simplicity, complexity, perplexity, and humility, listing the following characteristics of each stage
SIMPLICITY COMPLEXITY PERPLEXITY HUMILITY
Focus Right & Wrong Effective/Ineffective Honest/Dishonest Wise/Unwise
Motive Pleasing Authorities Reaching Goals Being Authentic Making Best
of Opportunities
Beliefs All Truth Knowable Almost All Is Doable All Is Questionable A Few Universals
Perceptions Dualistic (Black & Pragmatic Relativistic Integrated,
White) Synthesizing
Mottoes All or Nothing Whatever works All Opinions Focus on a Few
Equally Valid Grand Essentials
Authorities God's Representatives Coaches Demonic Imperfect, Doing
Their Best
Like Bold, Clear Assertive Clear Expectations Other Questioners Thoughtfulness &
Accomplishment
Dislike Tentative, Timid Dogmatic People in Stages
One and Two
Life is A War A Complex Game A Joke, Mystery A Mixture
Or Search
Strategy Learn Right Answers Learn Techniques Ask Hard Question Learn All You
Can and Admit How Little You Know
Strengths Commitment, Enthusiasm, Action Depth, Honesty Stability, wisdom
Sacrifice Idealism Sensitivity Humility
Weaknesses Arrogant, Simplistic Superficial, Naïve Cynical, Withdrawn Weaknesses of
Judgmental, Intolerant Uncommitted, Elitist Earlier Stages
Identity Leader or Group Cause or Achievement Solitude or Relationship
Alienated Friends to God
Relationships Dependent/ Increasingly Counter-dependent Interdependent
Codependent Independent
God is Ultimate Authority Ultimate Guide Myth I've Outgrown Knowable in Part
Figure, Ultimate or Coach or Opiate of Masses Yet Mysterious
Friend or Mystery I'm Seeking
As I read through his descriptions of these four stages, I could put dates and places on each stage. The early years of my Christian life in college and the Navy, for example, were largely spent in the "simplicity" stage. My years of ministry at the Naval Academy and in Ohio were spent in the "Complexity" phase, although I had a "crisis of faith" in Ohio that was undoubtedly part of the "Perplexity" stage. I really hit the "Perplexity" stage, however, after the first 5-7 years of ministry in France, when I "hit the wall" in the ministry.
Chapter 11 also contains an excellent treatment of questions of doubt, where he points out that doubting my faith is not the same thing as doubting God and that one can learn to doubt with God, rather than against God. The cry of the father of the demon-possessed boy in Mark 9 would be a good example of doubting with God: "Lord, I believe, help Thou mine unbelief!"
All of Part IV, in fact, is excellent advice for the seeker, with guidelines on how to approach the church. He suggests that there are three types of churches:
He recommends Type 3 as the best solution for the seeking or unconvinced, since he will run into people who have answers, but who don't marginalize those who have not yet arrived at faith. He also gives 10 guidelines for seeking a church that will help one on his or her spiritual journey.
In conclusion, it is clear that the author is much more interested in winning people than he is in winning arguments. He has the rare ability of seeing things from the other person's point of view. In this case, it is the point of view of the spiritual seeker, be he or she atheist, agnostic, or doubter. I would heartily recommend this book to any friend who is unconvinced or doubtful about the veracity of the Christian faith. It may or may not answer all his or her questions, but it will help the person to know how to go about finding answers.
It is not often that I am as enthusiastic about a book as I am about this one. Brian McLaren has, in my opinion, written a sequel to Mere Christianity for post-modern people. He writes with genuine love and respect for the unbeliever in a conversational style. He focuses on how to believe more than on what to believe or why one should believe.
What I found most refreshing about this book was the author's ability to put himself in the shoes of the unbeliever or seeker, and not polarize the issues that are often hang-ups for post-modern people. For example, he tackles the idea "It doesn't matter what you believe, just so you're sincere" with respect rather than ridicule. He does this by suggesting that what people really mean when they say that is that the quality of one's faith is as important as the content of one's faith.
Another example would be the way he addresses the question of whether truth is relative or absolute. He gently points out that "when we say that everything is relative and no one can know anything with certainty, (we) conveniently ignore the fact that we seem to believe that we know with complete certainty that everything is relative." (p. 56) This is not a new observation, of course, but I have seldom heard it made with such respect for the relativists we are seeking to win.
Likewise, he tactfully makes his case that everyone lives by faith, in that we all choose our basic presuppositions as a matter of a faith choice and not by unavoidable logic. He includes several quotes from Einstein to demonstrate that "there is no knowing without believing and believing is the way to knowing."
He writes in a respectful, conversational style as if he were actually in dialogue with an atheist or an agnostic or a struggling believer. In fact, he even asked several of his atheist and agnostic friends to review his manuscript. He does not try to back his interlocutor (i.e. the reader) into a corner, but gently leads him or her through the implications of each choice one can make in thinking about God.
But this book is not just for atheists, agnostics and other unbelieving seekers. He devotes considerable space to discussing the problems of doubt for the believer. Chapter 3 ("How Does Faith Grow?") contains one of the best outlines of spiritual growth that I have ever seen. He breaks the development of faith down into four stages: simplicity, complexity, perplexity, and humility.
In conclusion, it is clear that the author is much more interested in winning people than he is in winning arguments. He has the rare ability of seeing things from the point of view of the spiritual seeker, be he or she atheist, agnostic, or doubter. I would heartily recommend this book to any friend who is unconvinced or doubtful about the veracity of the Christian faith.